Encourage the engage couple to pray and seriously discern their choice of the right Mentor couple. Discuss with them:
It doesn’t matter if the engaged couple knows them really well, but make sure their selection of mentor couple is 1) Married five years or more in the Catholic Church, 2) Active in the Church and 3) in a marriage and family that the engaged couple admires.
After their selection, call the Mentor Couple and explain the process: